On Sunday I wrote about the loss of my dear friend Barb Kamer in the A Beautiful White Light post on my This Abundantly Delicious Life blog. Barb is the first person I’ve known who has died of breast cancer since I was diagnosed with breast cancer back in 2011.
My way of moving through the range of emotions I was feeling took the shape of words. Ideas came to me like soft clouds. I floated with them and the words and ideas began to form something bigger…and a poem took shape. I shared the piece today during our ‘Bosom Buddy’ yoga class, where I met Barb, and we dedicated our practice to her and all of the other women the group has known who have died of breast cancer. It seems only fitting that a poem came to me for Barb – she encouraged my writing and asked me to write Into The Light.
What do you do?
By Vicki L. Flaherty
What do you do with a loss like this?
Do you nudge it away so the hurt won’t get too close?
Or, do you cling to it as a reminder of her precious life?
Do you hold it close so she won’t seem so far away?
Do you lose it inside you to wander in search of answers?
Do you embrace it to hug her memory?
Do you snuggle it to your heart to keep your soul warm?
Do you sit quietly with it to feel her peaceful spirit?
Do you rest with it trusting that a loving power is at work?
Do you share it to release the heaviness of your pain?
Do you set it gently in your palms inviting it to float away?
Do you wash it in sunshine to awaken her light?
How do you invite her soul to do its work,
to awaken the energy of her love?
How do you to let her light shine through you,
to keep her laughter and beauty alive?
How do you find the meaning in the emptiness?
Just how do you respond to honor her life?
© Vicki Flaherty, 2013